Friday, March 4, 2011

When friends become frenemies or lesser social individuals

I love trying to give advice to a friend and she takes it wrong. Tries to turn it around on you. Tries to make herself seem more intelligently accentuated. More superior, and better off than you.

Someone you have had to lie to in order to make feel better.
Because in some ways she is an extremely neurotic person with fluctuating standards of self-worth and personal worth for other people.

Someone you allow to come over for a couple of weeks. That nearly eats you out of apartment and home. After you have acquired nearly 2 months worth of groceries. Criticizes how you live your day to day life. Complains about your children, yells at them, and tries to tell them what do.

Tries to lord the fact that she goes to college over your head. Like if you're not attending like her. You are insufficient and a waste of life.

Believes, although she will not admit it, "I am not good enough for anyone and nobody is good enough for me." Which repels men, and sends them backpedaling. As well as pushes friends away.

Claims not to be a mooch. Although SHE is jobless. Taking foodstamps from someone with a child. Moving in with a guy and having him pay for all the bills while dragging a room mate along with her.

And the list goes on. Right now you're probably thinking that I'm the horrible friend. Which you maybe right or maybe you're just like her and feel offended.

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